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This man took interest in a young lady who attends same church.
She was in her early 20’s and also a virgin, she refused his advances but the church stepped in to the point of even meeting her parents.
They convinced them that it’s better they marry out their daughter instead of letting someone else to spoil her and since they all know that this man to be of good character, a barsu kawai su yi auren dangi.
Both families agreed, meanwhile when the preparations was ongoing the groom was also planning to travel to US and before the wedding his visa was out, a day after the wedding he traveled out leaving his young wife behind.
Here’s the twist, he didn’t even touch her that night on the claims that he was too tired, so he left his young virgin wife behind in Nigeria.
She pleaded with him to rent her a house before leaving. But he refused, he insisted that she stays with his parents so they can put an eye on her.
She stayed there and was practically slaved for them, his siblings stopped doing anything, she cooked, she cleaned, she washed and ran errands. Infact she didn’t have a life.
If she’s running errands, her mother inlaw will go with her, they never let her go out by herself. After 2yrs he was able to file her and she traveled to join up with her beloved husband.
That was when her woe’s began, on getting there she discovered that he was already married and living with another woman, she slept on the couch while he and his woman slept in the room.
There also, she began slaving for them both, she did the cooking, cleaning and all the available chores.
She also discovered that he drank heavily and smoked, like a totally different personality of what people knew him to be. She was smart enough to gather all the available evidence and then she began insisting that she wanted to return to Nigeria.
They eventually did and she reported the matter to the church, omooo when they saw the evidence, they were bewildered, they asked her what she wanted and she said she wanted out, he couldn’t even look at the committee, his head was buried in shame.
She told them that since she got married to him he has never for once touched her not even a kiss and in his defence he said he’s very sure when he left her in Nigeria she was sleeping around. Like how?
She was practically living with his family and couldn’t go anywhere without any of them following her, so how was she sleeping around? The committee agreed with her and dissolved the marriage, she went into the marriage as a virgin and left as a virgin. “Alhamdulilahi”
